My grandma had seen it all. She had seen the dressing sense of people change right in front of her eye. And she didn't like all of it, especially the young generation avoiding native/traditional dresses. Thats what made her force me into using lungi/mundu. I been using lungi/mundu right from when I was introduced to it at the age of 13 by her. As a boy I was fascinated by these dresses that I never saw in the city. And my grandma decided to tell me about how the village folk dress up.
When my grandma was a young girl, she says, that there were not tailors in any place that she knew. They never had any kind of dresses that required tailoring. Yes, exactly what you were thinking: no stitched dresses; no blouses. She recalls using just a mundu when she was a kid. Until girls where of age boys and girls either wore only mundu that too on the waist. When she became a girl she started wearing the mundu higher, covering her chest, something that people call Mulakaccha. By the time she was sixteen, as her family was a well off one, they got dresses tailored from towns. Blouses were used for the first time in her home. Girls started using blouses though older women folk still refused to budge. The poorer village folk still continued with old practices.
She now wears only set-mundu or mundum neriyathum as we call it in Malayalam. She has never worn a saree.
Mamta in Lungi Blouse |
I am a fan of this particular style of dressing. I just find women more beautiful wearing mundu/lungi , blouse and thorthu than any other dress. For me the dress represented a hard working woman. Some one who works hard inside or outside her home. I always wonder why this style disappeared. Because it so simple to wear , it is comfortable and easy to manage. I say so because my grandma said so to me. Not just her, few of my female friends too said so.
Shari in Lungi Blouse |
Model in Lungi Blouse |
Model in Lungi Blouse |
Lakshmi Gopalaswami in Lungi Blouse |
After spending around a week preparing for the skit in these dress, walking around the whole campus in that dress, one of them even went home from school in lungi and blouse , last two days of practice. So it wasn't about feeling uncomfortable in the dress, when properly worn , it is more like set-mundu but with shorted shawl, and doesn't expose the body. But will they continue to use it? I asked them this and the reply was a no; as expected.
Model in Lungi Blouse |
Society no longer accepts this as a modest dress. Movies these days shows this as the dress worn by village sluts and prostitutes.
So it is not a question of feeling uncomfortable or exposed in it, nor it is of the dress being hard to manage(move around and work: free). It comes down to the image that the society has now associated with the dress. Provided this image is removed, those friends of mine said that they wouldn't mind wearing it in public or at home. It would be just like any other dress they have.
Of course it is not churidhar or salwar kameez, nor is it like a jeans and T-shirt. But it is the dress that the malayalee girls wore. It is a thousand times better than a nightie. If a lady can walk around in nightie outside her home even in a city, then lungi and blouse is much more than acceptable.
So will it make a come back? Not necessarily like the olden days...but will it ever be accepted as a normal dress that doesn't make people stare at you? What I think is that if the girls decide to wear it at home or in public, people will start accepting it.
This is RM signing off.
PS: The images I have posted here shows women in lungi/mundu, blouse and thorthu (as appeared in movies or other videos). All of them have worn it properly and you can notice that there is nothing indecent about the attire. Any dress can look slutty if it is worn so. Lungi-blouse is a victim of a wrong image associated with it.
girls in lungi and thorthu are most beautiful.
ReplyDeletethey will come become more beautiful,
especially lungi with lines.
Esp..wearing kerala dress like settu mundu,..lungi blouse make Kerala women most beautiful in the world..
recently i saw a girl performing a song in amrita tv wearing settu mundu with black 'kara'. it made her more georgeous than the top jeans she wared for practise.
Thanks for the comment. It feels good to know there are people who share my view. I just hope others also see the beauty and stop associating dresses like Lungi blouse with porn. Keep visiting and sharing your thoughts
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I came across your blog by accident and i enjoyed reading your thoughts that you have put forward. And i also find that no woman has come forward to put their thoughts or share any experience if they had wearing the lungi blouse, so i would like to share a thought and a experience with a belief that more will come forward after reading this...
ReplyDeleteMy name is Layju Anand and i work as a lecturer in a college in Kollam. To be honest, i have worn lungi / mundu with blouse / with my father's old shirts and i have got inspiration from my mother who i started seeing her at a young age wearing mundu, blouse and throthe /
vesthi. She wears mundu blouse during the night hours and also wears lungi blouse sometimes but during the daytime she wears saree or set mundu. I have a seen a old photo hers that was taken during the 70s with two of her roomates when she was staying in college hostel. In the photo, she was wearing a mundu blouse with thorthe and her other two friends were wearing lungi blouse and she told me that she started wearing mundu blouse throthe in the hostel because most of the girls in hostel used to wear mundu or lungi with blouse or shirt with throthe or vesthi and they used to roam in the hostel wearing it.
And i started wearing as i mentioned earlier out of inspiration and curiosity after my 12th and i only wear it when i am alone or during night time even though i do wear nightie at times. So i like to conclude that even though girls and women of these days prefer to wear skirts, jeans, etc and show to the socity that they enjoy wearing the fashion of these day but there are still girls and women who still likes or enjoys wearing lungi blouse in secret and i do enjoy wearing it even though the society frowns upon it. And When my mother sees the fashion of girls of these days,compares it with her times and says that her times were much better than ours.
- Layju Anand
Thank you ma'am for your comment. What you said is true, there are girls who do wear lungi blouse in secret. I think , this happens in families where they have seen their mothers wear it. They have grown up watching their mothers wear it but they never got a chance to try it out themselves and are shy to wear it in public, shy even to face their parents wearing Lungi Blouse. May be that's the reason, girls try such things out when they are away from home. My mom still wears mundu blouse. She usually never wear lungi. We got a huge backyard (more like a plantation) in my native place. It's only when she needs to be in there that she switches to lungi. And it's purely logical, its hard to keep mundu clean with all the plant lives around. Even my fiancee started wearing lungi instead of mundu due to the same reason. Unlike in the case of girls of her generation she actually grew up wearing mundu neriyath, so she isn't exactly shy to be see wearing mundu/lungi (though she has exceptions in this).
DeleteGirls should feel free to come out and wear it, only then society will accept this attire.
Thanks again for commenting. Please keep sharing your views. :)
It was interestng to read your views on the various trends on dresses that happened in Cheralam from the precolonial times to the colonial times till date.
ReplyDeleteIn my vilage a family liveing on river side
ReplyDeletei see them mostly in traditional dress like mundu and lungi blouse
in that one college girl ,she also wear lungi blouse of her mother some times
Nice to have read your. I wear this still in Home. Most comfortable than nightie. My family feels awkward when relatives come Home and ask me to change to nightie to chudidar. Loved the writing. These days after being a mother lungi and t-shirts are my comfortable wear. Thanks for the writing. Good reading of our traditional comfortable attire.
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